We know that life is busy, and it’s often challenging to balance family and work activities and responsibilities. In an effort to offer more convenience to our clients and families, NESCA is now offering Saturday appointments for neuropsychological evaluations. For more information or to book a neuropsychological evaluation, complete our Inquiry/Intake Form.

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Summer Treatment Ideas for Children with ADHD

By | NESCA Notes 2025

Image of a child doing an obstacle course and a quote by Julie Weieneth, Ph.D.By: Julie Weieneth, Ph.D.
Pediatric Neuropsychologist, NESCA

For many families with children who have ADHD, the end of the school year brings both relief and anxiety. While the break is welcome, the sudden loss of routine can be daunting, leading to unstructured days and endless requests for screen time. But what if this summer could be different? The season’s freedom presents a powerful opportunity to build new skills, strengthen family bonds, and explore creative ways to manage ADHD symptoms. To help you begin, we have gathered summer treatment and planning ideas for every age, including preschoolers, elementary schoolers, middle schoolers, and young adults preparing for college. If any of these ideas resonate with you, try one out this summer and let us know how it goes. We would love to share your experiences with other families!

Preschool (Ages 3-5)

For the little ones, learning through play and interaction is key.

  1. Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT): PCIT is a hands-on approach that helps parents build better relationships with their kids using play and clear discipline strategies, with real-time coaching from a therapist. It focuses on boosting positive behaviors and reducing the tough ones to create a happier home life. For more information, check out PCIT.org or reach out to NESCA for provider recommendations.
  2. Occupational Therapy (OT): OT can support young children with ADHD by targeting sensory processing, self-regulation, and fine motor skills.
  3. Academic Readiness through Play: Head to a local craft, school supply, or thrift store, or a learning store, like Lakeshore Learning, to find games and activities that build fine motor skills, counting, sorting, and creativity. Here are some additional fun ideas to try out:
    • Treasure Hunts: Create simple treasure hunts with clues to improve attention, focus, and listening skills.
    • Storytime with Puppets: Use puppets to act out stories, encouraging participation and retelling to boost language skills.
    • Craft Projects: Try out different crafts involving cutting, gluing, and coloring to strengthen fine motor skills and creativity.
    • Obstacle Courses: Set up indoor or outdoor courses to enhance physical coordination and follow instructions. If you have an older sibling, get them involved in setting up and running the obstacle course.
    • Cooking Together: Involve your child in cooking simple recipes to improve focus, following directions, and fine motor skills.
    • Memory Games: Play memory games with cards or objects to boost attention and recall.
    • Building Challenges: Use blocks or LEGO sets to encourage planning and problem-solving.
    • Dance and Movement Games: Play games, like freeze dance or follow-the-leader, to help with self-regulation and listening skills.

Elementary School (Ages 6-10)

Kids in this age group thrive with structured activities that enhance social skills and organization.

  1. Behavioral Therapy: Enroll your child in therapy sessions targeting goals including impulse control and organization.
  2. ADHD Summer Camps and Social Skills Groups: These camps/group programs offer structured environments tailored for kids with ADHD, focusing on social skills, self-esteem, and executive functioning.
  3. Bibliotherapy or Self-Help: Summer is a great time to read books on parenting children with ADHD, like “Taking Charge of ADHD” by Russell A. Barkley. There are also many children’s books, such as “The Secret Superpowers of ADHD” by Jennifer Everly. Explore resources on CHADD and ADDitude for more ideas.

Middle School (Ages 11-13)

As your child enters adolescence, focus on fostering independence and self-awareness.

  1. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): CBT helps middle schoolers learn strategies to manage impulsivity and improve attention, with summer sessions focusing on real-life situations, such as managing social conflict and academic stress.
  2. Mindfulness and Relaxation Techniques: Introduce mindfulness practices –  meditation or yoga – to improve focus and reduce stress. Many apps can help integrate these into daily routines.
  3. Volunteer Opportunities: Encourage community service projects to boost self-esteem, teach life skills, and reinforce social skills and early vocational skills.

Young Adults Transitioning to College/Vocational Endeavors (Ages 14-18)

For these young adults, it is all about preparing for college or vocational work, and managing academic, social, and daily living demands more independently.

  1. Executive Function Coaching: Consider hiring a coach to work on time management, organization, and goal setting, which are key skills for college and career success. NESCA offers transition-related assessments and coaching services tailored to transition-age youth. Explore NESCA Transition Services to help determine if college or a different path is right for you, and NESCA Coaching Services to build and practice skills that will be needed for all future paths.
  2. Medication Management: Check in with your healthcare provider to review medications and make any necessary changes before college starts. Learn more about what they are, what they are for, how to refill them, and when a new prescription is needed.
  3. Transition Workshops and College Immersion Programs: Look for workshops or programs that focus on transitioning to college or postsecondary life, covering self-advocacy, stress management, academic strategies, and social problem-solving.
  4. Updated Neuropsychological Evaluation: Ensure updated testing within three years of starting college or work to receive accommodations. If you have relied on accommodations in high school, have a support plan in place before your first college semester in order to ensure your success. Get to know more about on-campus resources to support you. If you are interested in learning about neuropsychological evaluations, please check out our website or contact us by filling out an Intake Form for more information.

We hope that you have a relaxing, fun, and rewarding summer! Feel free to reach out with any questions or concerns, or if you have any additional ideas to share with the NESCA community!

 

About the AuthorJulie Weineth headshot

Dr. Weieneth is a licensed clinical psychologist who has worked with children and families with complex diagnostic and treatment needs for the last twenty years. Her areas of specialty include ADHD, autism spectrum disorders, anxiety, mood disorders, learning disabilities, executive functioning, and school-related challenges. That being said, Dr. Weieneth also understands that not all individuals fit cleanly into diagnostic groups or labels. Her goals for each evaluation are to help families feel comfortable with the process, use all the tools available to best understand each individual’s unique strengths and needs, and to write a clear and comprehensive report that will guide educational and treatment planning.

To book a consultation with Dr. Weieneth or one of our many other expert neuropsychologists or other clinicians, complete NESCA’s online intake form.

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, New York (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

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Strengthening the South Shore Community: Supporting Our Children, Teens, and Adults

By | NESCA Notes 2024

Map of Hingham, MA and quote by Dr. Moira CreedonBy: Moira Creedon, Ph.D. 
Pediatric Neuropsychologist, NESCA

It was an exciting dream realized when our NESCA South Shore office in Hingham opened in November 2023. As a resident of the South Shore, I was looking forward to connecting to my community closer to home. I was expecting to enjoy a shorter commute and great location. Pausing to reflect after 16 months with our doors open in Hingham, I realize that it is so much more.

I am grateful for how quickly we were welcomed by pediatricians, therapists, psychiatrists, tutors and executive functioning coaches, attorneys, advocates, and public and private schools. We have all quickly aligned on the needs of our communities. There are many children, teens, and adults struggling with gaps in learning, trouble with social connections, high anxiety, depressed mood, and behavioral troubles. Many of these collaborations have also communicated the frustration and sense of burnout facing families who feel like they have been working hard and trying to make changes. Teachers feel discouraged when they have dedicated their hearts and minds to support students, and yet students continue to struggle. Adults are also going through this in record numbers. The experience in our community is universal – it’s so hard to watch our kids, teens, young adults, and our contemporaries struggle.

This can leave many wondering if neuropsychological testing is just one more “hoop” to jump through. Within the trenches of the daily struggle, it can be hard to see how testing might help – especially when change is so slow. I do all that I can to explain why neuropsychological testing is way more than a hoop; it can be a roadmap. How?

  1. Even if you or your child has had “evaluations before,” neuropsychological testing is a chance at an integrated and comprehensive evaluation. What does that mean? It means that if you have had pieces of testing before, you still have a pile of pieces – an educational evaluation from school, a private OT evaluation, an early speech evaluation, a diagnostic interview with a therapist, etc. My goal is to take all of those pieces, plus the new ones I add, and put them together into one cohesive puzzle demonstrating how a child or teen thinks and learns.  This is one of the reasons NESCA does academic testing as part of its testing batteries, because these pieces are essential for diagnostic clarity, to see how the profile impacts a person’s real life skills/functioning, and because being a student is a kid or teen’s full time job. It’s not a piece to be overlooked.
  2. Neuropsychological testing can be a chance to understand the “why” when there are many complicated layers. When an individual is struggling, we often start in the middle of the process. Often, parents and/or schools want to try to solve the problem with school support, or interventions such as a referral to a therapist or connection to a social skills group. When those efforts stall, the impulse is to try a different solution.  Neuropsychological testing lets us step back, learn about a larger profile or picture of all aspects of a child’s learning or thinking to make meaning of what is happening. Then, we can choose a path for intervention that has the best chance of success. When a child is struggling, trying to see what works in a way that’s not fully informed or that addresses the child as a whole, is often not the best use of time and resources. The same goes for adults who seem to be missing a piece of their own puzzle.
  3. Neuropsychological testing uses the data collected from the testing to outline the steps for what to do next. Any good plan needs a detailed understanding of a problem. Oftentimes, it’s a combination of services that are needed – in the community, at home, and/or at school. It can be hard to figure out how to prioritize the steps, and it’s important to consider what is realistic and feasible. Neuropsychological evaluation can help make those steps clearer.
  4. Neuropsychological testing can give us a good baseline and measure of progress. Caretakers know their children best, so they can often spot subtle issues before they bloom into the bigger issues. Neuropsychological testing can be proactive, and it can help to track how a student responds to interventions. We can also use neuropsychological testing to maximize potential, including how students find their strengths, build their “academic diet” of courses in high school and college, and build stronger study skills along the way.
  5. At NESCA, neuropsychological testing involves important collaboration, perspective, and insight. The reason I mention the community that I’ve met through our South Shore office is because collaboration is key. The observations and insight offered by anyone who comes in contact with a child or teen is invaluable. Standardized test measures are a critical piece of the puzzle, but it’s one part of the critical triad of history, observations, and testing. These collaborations are also helpful to keep the neuropsychological test report “alive” as the community putting the recommendations into action works best through communication.

In the upcoming year, we set many goals for NESCA as a leader in our field. I want to pledge to my community that we will continue to provide the highest quality care and to respect and value our clients and families.  We will continue to build connections to our community members to join the efforts in supporting children, teens, and young adults. I am thrilled for upcoming opportunities to learn and grow alongside you all.  I am deeply grateful to be part of the South Shore community supporting children, teens, and young adults.

 

About the Author

Dr. Creedon offers her expertise in evaluating children and teens with a variety of presenting issues. SheMoira Creedon headshot is interested in uncovering an individual’s unique pattern of strengths and weaknesses to best formulate a plan for intervention and success. She tailors each assessment to address a range of referral questions, such as developmental disabilities, including Autism Spectrum Disorder, learning disabilities, attention challenges, executive functioning deficits, and social-emotional struggles. She also evaluates college-/grad school-age/adult individuals with developmental issues, such as ASD and ADHD, particularly when there is a diagnostic clarity or accommodation question.

 

If you are interested in booking an evaluation with Dr. Creedon or another NESCA neuropsychologist, please fill out and submit our online intake form

 

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, NY (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

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NESCA Welcomes Julie Weieneth, Ph.D., to its Team

By | NESCA Notes 2025

Julie Weieneth headshot and quoteBy: Jane Hauser
Director of Marketing & Outreach, NESCA

NESCA is excited to welcome Pediatric Neuropsychologist Julie Weieneth, Ph.D., to its Newton, Massachusetts location! Read more about Dr. Weieneth’s past experience, areas of specialization, and what brought her to NESCA as a pediatric neuropsychologist.

 

What drew you to neuropsychology?

Part of what interested me is that I’ve always done and have always enjoyed testing. I did my post-doc at the Developmental Medicine Center at Children’s Hospital Boston and did plenty of testing there. Then, with each subsequent role I was in – whether at a therapeutic school or in a group practice – I was conducting evaluations.

Neuropsychology is a really helpful way to integrate school-based evaluations. If we’re looking at diagnostic clarification, which is one of my areas of interest, that’s what a neuropsychological evaluation and subsequent report can do.

What settings have you worked in previously?

A lot of my background has been as a staff psychologist in therapeutic school settings, including the Manville School and New England Academy for many years, including during Covid.

I then moved on to a group neuropsychology practice so I could better balance my work and life schedules. My own kids were transitioning back to in-person school, and I wanted more flexibility in my schedule to support them as well as the students I evaluate.

What are your specialty areas?

My years in the therapeutic school setting gave me a good understanding of the various challenges students have as well as the complex educational needs that come with supporting them through those challenges.

Taking a step back, my dissertation was on the early development of ADHD, so that is an area that I am very familiar with and still really interested in. I also enjoy working with students with complex presentations, helping to provide diagnostic clarification as well as the kind of supports the individual and family will need to foster their education and development. In addition, I’d say I am also a bit of a generalist, able to work with most children and adolescents who are struggling.

What were you looking for in a new environment?

I am really excited about NESCA being a multidisciplinary practice. I’m looking forward to being part of a team made up of providers from different specialty areas. It will be great to refer children and students to people and providers in-house who I trust for executive function coaching, real-life skills coaching, transition planning, therapy, consultation, and more.

What do you find most rewarding as a neuropsychologist who works with children and adolescents?

I find it particularly rewarding when a student who has struggled with school refusal, meaning they are not actively attending school, is fully back in school and thriving. It’s a great feeling to be part of the team that helps figure out what is  happening for them, and helps direct them to the right resources so they can get back into school. I recently heard from a parent of a student I evaluated, who was really struggling and not engaging in any aspects of their schooling or life overall. They let me know that their child sought out and stuck to the interventions we recommended, and their child is back in school and doing well. That’s what our job is all about.

What do you think are the benefits of working in a group practice?

Sometimes the children we work with have a really hard time during the evaluation process, and we can’t finish all of the testing in the first session. I like having the ability to be flexible with them and bring them back in for another session if necessary. If we rush or force the testing, we will not get accurate results. Being in a group practice – rather than a hospital setting where the flexibility in schedules just isn’t there – allows me, as a neuropsychologist, to meet kids where they are at and get the best data and observations that I can.

Working as part of a group practice allows us to share insights, perspectives, connections, and experiences of the entire team. The cases that we all see are complicated, and sometimes, it’s really helpful to take all the information we have available and consult with those around us. To me, it’s a best practice to consult on cases with others. You gain the perspectives and experiences of others in the practice, and it also helps to develop solid recommendations with specific referrals from other experts in the practice to help a family move forward.

As neuropsychologists, we’ve all had different training and previous work experiences, and this is particularly important when cases are complicated. I’m open to hearing information and feedback from others, especially if I think it’s going to help the family move forward. When you work with a team of experts, it makes our reports so much more meaningful for the families we serve.

What are some of the strategies you employ when you are evaluating a child or adolescent who is struggling during the assessment?

Oh, there are so many. Sometimes, I will use Collaborative Problem Solving techniques. I’ve also had sessions where I have waited children out, offered them rewards, provided lots of nurturing and praise – again just meeting them where they are at. I also involve the parent or caregiver in the sessions if the child needs that support.

I’ve learned through the years how to be comfortable in most situations or settings, and I’m not easily thrown by emotional intensity. I always try to end on a positive note, whether the evaluation was smooth or challenging. If they struggled and needed an extra session, I involve the child in the decision to come back the next day and praise them for everything they accomplished in the initial session. They worked hard and should be positively reinforced for that.

Parents and caregivers come to NESCA for answers. How do you help guide parents and caregivers through the evaluation process?

Just like with children and adolescents, I meet the parents and caregivers where they’re at. And everyone is so different in their own experience when they are exploring or seeking out a neuropsychological evaluation. It may be their first time, and they are afraid, or it could be the sixth neuropsychological evaluation their child has had, and they know the drill. No matter where they are at, you do your best to explain what the process is and inform them about what to expect. I let them know that the whole process is designed to understand an individual’s learning strengths and challenges. I let them know that when I develop the report,  I will write highly personalized recommendations that build on their child’s strengths and how they can help to understand and work through their challenges.

People often say that I have a “matter of fact” way about me. I approach things practically, and I like to share input, feedback, and guidance with parents, caregivers, and students in that way. While I am practical, I am also empathetic and understanding of everyone’s stories.

How important do you think observation of the individual being evaluated is? What can you tell from the observations?

I was trained to pay attention to the observations. What’s behind the numbers is super important. I would never write a report without a lot of behavioral observations and interpretations around what things mean, because that is so critical.

Behavioral observations can provide insight into what comes easy to the students. And even if they have an average score in a particular area, it’s critical to look at how they approached that task. This can be really meaningful in an evaluation and in providing recommendations.

When you are working with students who are complicated, their struggles emerge in many ways beyond what the typical data show. If you just looked at the numbers, you might not see any struggle. Because the tasks are administered in a 1:1 setting, you see how they approach a task, how they complete it, or whether they can complete it. It informs us about things like their working memory and processing speed, and how that may impact them in real-life or educational settings. Children with high variability in their scores can “fall through the cracks” in school. They may appear like they are doing just fine from their grades and other test scores, but they are often dealing with an internal struggle or an uneven profile. The risk in saying they are doing fine is that, as they progress through their education, the struggle often just gets worse.

What have you noticed in the students you’ve evaluated since Covid?

I see a lot more school refusal among students, meaning the students who are not able to attend school or those who may be in school but need to arrive late or leave early on a consistent basis.

In addition, there has been a lot of anxiety, depression, isolation, and those sorts of things. Everything seems to be far more complex than it had been before Covid. And that’s a lot, considering it was already getting more complex before, with social media other stressors.

I’ve also noticed that there’s a lot of anxiety among adults. The parents and caregivers seem to have a heightened sense of anxiety and uncertainty.

How did you work through Covid?

It certainly was challenging, but there were two important silver linings that emerged from that experience. I learned to meditate and get more interested in mindfulness throughout that time. It has been really helpful to me.

Professionally, Covid actually helped me grow and transition from the therapeutic school setting to a group neuropsychology practice. While I loved my roles within schools, I was looking to delve deeper into diagnostic assessment. Doing so also provided me with more flexibility to balance things between my professional and personal lives. So, there were at least two positives that came out of the experience.

 

About the AuthorJulie Weineth headshot

Dr. Weieneth is a licensed clinical psychologist who has worked with children and families with complex diagnostic and treatment needs for the last twenty years. Her areas of specialty include ADHD, autism spectrum disorders, anxiety, mood disorders, learning disabilities, executive functioning, and school-related challenges. That being said, Dr. Weieneth also understands that not all individuals fit cleanly into diagnostic groups or labels. Her goals for each evaluation are to help families feel comfortable with the process, use all the tools available to best understand each individual’s unique strengths and needs, and to write a clear and comprehensive report that will guide educational and treatment planning.

To book a consultation with Dr. Weieneth or one of our many other expert neuropsychologists or other clinicians, complete NESCA’s online intake form.

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, New York (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

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Introducing Pediatric Neuropsychologist Sean Hyde O’Brien, Psy.D., ABPdN

By | NESCA Notes 2024

Sean O'Brien headshot and quoteBy: Jane Hauser
Director of Marketing & Outreach, NESCA

NESCA is excited to welcome Sean Hyde O’Brien, Psy.D., ABPdN, to our team, conducting evaluations in the Newton, Massachusetts office! My interview with Dr. O’Brien offers an opportunity for readers to get to know him, his professional background, experiences and expertise, and his approach to working with children, adolescents, and young adults as a pediatric neuropsychologist.

You covered a broad swath of academic, emotional, and developmental challenges in your career as a pediatric neuropsychologist. Tell us more about that.

I think I’m a good generalist as far as pediatric neuropsychology goes, covering a lot of the high-incidence disorders, like ADHD, autism spectrum disorder, and learning disorders, but there are a couple groups that I really like working with.

What are the groups of children or students you find the most interesting?

I really like kids that are on the high functioning end of the autism spectrum, so I did one of my post-doctoral years at McLean at the Center for Neurointegrative Services, which is a DOE-approved special education school for kids who used to have what was called Asperger’s Disorder, which is now part of the ASD diagnosis. I got to spend a lot of time honing my assessment skills, but also spending quality time getting to know this group of students. They have a special place in my heart.

Another area I enjoy is working with children who came from other countries and may have moved because of war, famine, or simply for better opportunities for their families. They often come to this new country, perhaps not with the best English skills, and a lot of complex developmental and psychiatric challenges. Teasing all of those components apart and helping them acclimate to a new school, culture, and world has been interesting to me.

It takes a lot of thinking on your feet from an assessment standpoint to work with this population. For example, when you evaluate a child who speaks Russian and has only been learning English for six months, you’re not going to be able to do your standard battery of tests to figure out what their cognitive functioning is like. You have to think creatively and find ways to work slightly outside the domain of standard evaluation procedures. I’ve learned so much being with them, watching, and observing them in different settings, and, of course, getting the information from multiple sources, like teachers and parents. Those kids along with those who come from other countries through adoption are the most challenging, but also probably the most rewarding to me.

My wife and I were both adopted, so I come from a family of people who know and are part of the adoption community. I did a lot of research and clinical work involving international adoption. I love working with children who are coming from China, India, Korea, or domestically and their adoptive parents who are trying to figure out how to best support them with the range of strengths and weaknesses that they might have. These are also some of the kids who stick out to me.

Why did you come to NESCA?

I was looking for a change. I’ve been a partner in a private practice that we built from scratch for about 15 years, handling all of the many aspects of running a small business and evaluating students. I felt that the operational and clinical duties became too time-consuming to have a healthy work-life balance. I decided that it was time for a recalibration that would allow me to continue to evaluate children, but not have to stress over all of the other time-consuming operational details.

Throughout my career, I’ve had many NESCA reports come across my desk. They were very well done, and the practice has an incredible reputation. I met with NESCA’s founder and I knew it was the right place. She values the same things that I value – collegiality, warmth, and child-centric care. I was looking for a place where I could do good work and do it in a way that feels good at the end of the day. I found that in NESCA.

What do you feel you can contribute to NESCA families and staff?

The feedback I received over the years is that my ability to connect with children makes me an ally to them, especially those who may be a little resistant to the process. Some kids come in and are scared or angry that they have to be there for an evaluation. I always find a way to let them know this is in their best interest. I will explain what an evaluation will do for them in the end and that I want to work with them to figure out their “operating system” to make life work better for them. Families feel that I’m warm, approachable, and just a nice guy. I make sure that the individuals I evaluate don’t see me as Dr. O’Brien – I’m just Sean, and I’m a “learning detective,” of sorts, who helps figure out what’s going on with them.

I’ve had a number of students who I’ve seen three or so times over the course of the past 15 years. They may have come to me as a struggling six- or seven-year-old and are now in college. It’s the long-term relationships and knowing that the work I did, or that we did together, changed their developmental trajectory and helped them start to feel better about themselves as a learner and/or a person. That’s the piece that keeps me loving the work that I do and feeling young, fresh, and energized. I couldn’t ask for a better job.

What are your thoughts on the field of neuropsychology overall?

We’re a field that is a mixture of art and science. We are students of the brain; not experts, and we are all still learning about how the brain works. That is continuously being questioned, refuted, and remodeled. Since I first started studying neuroanatomy, we have come so far and yet we still know so little.

We can’t become rigid or complacent in the evaluation of children, adolescents, or adults, because that will be the biggest disservice we can give to our clients. We have to always be learning and evolving. Using antiquated models, not being open to new tests or new ways of thinking about things will not help anyone. I have the feeling I will learn a lot of new, creative, proven approaches while I am at NESCA, and that is very exciting to me.

I don’t think you get that kind of ongoing learning and exposure to innovative ways of doing things in many places. Often, neuropsychologists have to go outside of their practices to get that kind of knowledge from colleagues. Having that built in here at NESCA is something I am excited about.

 

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Dr. Sean Hyde O’Brien has been providing comprehensive neuropsychological evaluations in the Greater Boston area since 2006. He specializes in the assessment of children and adolescents who present with a wide range of developmental conditions, such as  Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder, Specific Learning Disorder (reading, writing, math), Intellectual Disability, and Autism Spectrum Disorder; as well as children whose cognitive functioning has been impacted by medical, psychiatric, and genetic conditions. He also has extensive experience working with children who were adopted both domestically and internationally.

To book a consultation with Dr. O’Brien or one of our many other expert neuropsychologists or other clinicians, complete NESCA’s online intake form.

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, New York (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

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Helping Students Become Independent: The Role of Fading Prompts

By | NESCA Notes 2024

Image of the words Fading Prompts fading outBy: Sarah LaFerriere, M.Ed.
Transition Specialist & Special Educator, NESCA

Supporting students with disabilities is an experience filled with opportunities to help them grow and succeed. One key area to focus on is promoting independence, which involves carefully managing the use of prompts. If not handled well, prompt dependence can become a significant barrier, especially as students move toward transition age.

What is Prompt Dependence?
Prompt dependence happens when students become overly reliant on external cues, like verbal or written instructions or physical guidance – from teachers, therapists, or caregivers. While prompts are a helpful tool in teaching, over time, too much reliance on them can make it difficult for students to act independently. This can become a bigger issue as they get older and need to function more independently in real-world situations, such as in jobs or community settings.

Why Fading Prompts Matters and How to Do It
Fading prompts is a technique used to gradually decrease the level of support given to students, helping them gain the skills they need to act independently. The goal is to provide enough support initially so that students can learn, and then slowly reduce that support as they become more capable on their own. This isn’t about suddenly withdrawing help but rather about making a gradual shift that encourages students to rely on their own skills.

  1. Start Early—Addressing prompt dependence early on is crucial. When introducing prompts, consider how you’ll gradually reduce them. For younger students, this could mean starting with more hands-on assistance and gradually moving to less direct forms of support, such as verbal or visual cues.
  2. Reduce Support Gradually—Fading prompts involves a step-by-step reduction of assistance. Begin with more direct prompts and, as the student improves, shift to more subtle forms of support. It’s important to pace this reduction based on the student’s progress, ensuring they have enough opportunity to practice and succeed before making further changes.
  3. Promote Self-awareness—Encouraging students to recognize when they need help and how to seek it can be very effective. By developing self-monitoring skills, students can learn to manage their own needs and understand when they are capable of performing tasks on their own.
  4. Be Consistent and Patient—Consistency among all those involved in a student’s education is key. This means that teachers, therapists, and family members should use the same approach and follow the same plan for reducing prompts. Patience is also important, as progress can be gradual and may require repeated practice.
  5. Customize Approaches—Every student is different, and so their path to independence will be unique. Tailoring the approach to each student’s specific needs can make a big difference. This might involve adjusting how quickly prompts are faded or choosing the types of support that work best for the student. Regularly reviewing and adjusting the plan ensures that students are receiving the right level of support.

Involving Families and Service Providers
Families and service providers are essential in this process. Good communication and teamwork between educators, therapists, and families help create a consistent approach to fading prompts. Families can support the skills being taught in various settings, and service providers can offer valuable insights and guidance.

Preparing for the Future
As students reach transition age, being able to act independently becomes even more important. By addressing prompt dependence early and using effective fading techniques, we can help students develop the skills and confidence they need for adult life. This preparation not only aids students but also benefits their families and communities by fostering a more inclusive environment.

In summary, fading prompts is a crucial practice in helping students with disabilities become more independent. By understanding and applying strategies to reduce prompt dependence, we can better prepare students for a future where they can navigate the world with confidence and self-sufficiency. This not only supports the students but also contributes to a more supportive and inclusive community.

 

About the AuthorHeadshot of Sarah LaFerriere, M.Ed.

Sarah LaFerriere, M.Ed., is a transition specialist and special educator who has nearly a decade of experience working with transition aged students in public schools, college, and home-based settings. She provides transition assessment, consultation, and coaching services to a wide range of clients, and specializes in supporting students with autism, intellectual disabilities, developmental disabilities, mental health conditions, and medical conditions.

To book a consultation with Sarah LaFerriere or one of our many other expert transition specialists, neuropsychologists, or other clinicians, complete NESCA’s online intake form.

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, New York (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

Child in bed suffering from a concussion, holding their head in pain

What School Supports Does My Child Need After A Concussion?

By | NESCA Notes 2024

Child in bed suffering from a concussion, holding their head in painBy: Alison Burns, Ph.D.
Pediatric Neuropsychologist, NESCA

Unfortunately, every year, many children and adolescents experience concussions. A concussion is a mild traumatic brain injury that occurs when an individual sustains a blow to the head or body that results in the brain moving rapidly back and forth. This causes the brain to stretch and strain, resulting in a vast array of possible symptoms. Symptoms of a concussion include:

list of physical, cognitive, emotional, and sleep concussion symptoms

Recent studies have shown that while it is important to rest for the initial few days after an injury, slowly reengaging in cognitive activities at a tolerable level helps to promote recovery. This period of rest followed by a slow increase in cognitive activity means that children are often out of school/slowly transitioning back to school for an unspecified period after injury. As such, many children will benefit from support and accommodation at school during the recovery period. Parents are encouraged to talk to their child’s academic team and school personnel to discuss the need for these supports. As children and adolescents experience differing sets of symptoms after an injury, the accommodations and supports should be tailored to the individual’s unique symptom profile.

Physical Symptoms: Students who experience headaches or fatigue may benefit from rest breaks or even a nap during the school day. Dizziness, balance problems, or nausea may necessitate the need for an elevator pass and it may be helpful for the student to transition to class before the bell rings when there are less people to navigate around in the hallway. Light and noise sensitivity can be particularly hard within the school setting. Students may need to wear sunglasses or a hat, be seated away from the window, and may need teacher notes as looking at a smartboard may be painful. In addition, computer-based work may need to be printed during the recovery period for light sensitive students. Students with noise sensitivity may need to wear ear plugs, avoid crowded and noisy areas, such as the lunchroom, assemblies, or music class, and they may need to transition to the next class before the bell rings and the hallway becomes noisy.

Cognitive Symptoms: A concussion can temporarily impact an individual’s attention, executive functioning skills, and processing speed. Therefore, it may be necessary to reduce a child’s workload (e.g., odd/even problems only, outline a paper instead of writing it fully, reduce homework load) and assign only essential work (i.e., waive non-essential assignments, quizzes, and tests). In addition, it may be helpful to break down tasks into smaller “chunks,” repeat information or instructions, and allow for extended time to complete essential classwork, quizzes, and tests. They may need access to teacher notes if they are unable to keep up with the pace of the instruction to take proper notes, and they may need information presented in a slower manner or repeated to ensure comprehension. Teachers should consider alternative ways to ensure mastery of information (e.g., oral discussion, multiple choice instead of open-ended questions) as students may not be able to demonstrate their true knowledge in standard ways while recovering from a concussion. Tests and quizzes should only be given if symptoms do not interfere, and the student is adequately prepared.

Emotional Symptoms: Emotional symptoms following concussion are often overlooked as they are not a commonly known symptom of concussion. Some children and adolescents may become overwhelmed about missing school and the accumulating workload, and they may feel isolated from their friends. This would also suggest the need to reduce a child’s workload for a short period of time, including waiving non-essential assignments, quizzes, or tests. Students should also be allowed to socialize with their peers as tolerated (e.g., quiet lunch setting with a few close friends).

Sleep Symptoms: A child or adolescent experiencing sleep difficulties as a result of their concussion may not have the energy to complete a full day of school. They may need a later start time or only be able to complete a half day of school. Some students with disrupted sleep may be able to complete a full school day, but they may require a nap in the nurse’s office.

In sum, a concussion presents in many ways and often has a significant impact on the day-to-day functioning of a child or adolescent. In particular, school is often disrupted after a concussion, even for children and adolescents who have a short recovery. School supports and accommodations should be tailored to the child’s individual profile of symptoms to best support them throughout their recovery.

 

About the Author

Dr. Burns conducts comprehensive evaluations of school-aged children, adolescents, and young adults with a variety of developmental, learning, and emotional difficulties. She has expertise in the evaluation of individuals following a concussion/mild traumatic brain injury and particularly enjoys working with individuals with attention (ADHD) and executive functioning (EF) difficulties. Dr. Burns is passionate about helping individuals and their families better understand their areas of strength and weakness and provides tailored treatment recommendations based upon that unique profile to make the evaluation most helpful for each client.

 

To book a consultation with Dr. Burns or one of our many other expert neuropsychologists, complete NESCA’s online intake form.

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, New York (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

three children enjoying reading books on a beach

Why Should I Encourage My Child to Read Before Heading Back to School?

By | NESCA Notes 2024

three children enjoying reading books on a beachBy: Alissa Talamo, PhD
Pediatric Neuropsychologist, NESCA

While it is important for children to have the summer to relax and recharge, summer is also an opportunity to make reading a fun and enjoyable experience. Research demonstrates that students who do not read over the summer are more likely to “slide” or lose skills during that time period, while students who read can avoid the slide and actually improve their reading skills. Reading also provides significant benefits, including expanding your child’s general knowledge, improving spelling skills, increasing vocabulary, and even improving focus and attention.

According to Sally Shaywitz, MD, author of the book, Overcoming Dyslexia, students who read for less than a few minutes a day (outside of school) are exposed to approximately 8,000 written words per year compared to a child who reads for 20 minutes per day who is exposed to 1.8 million words per year. Reading also exposes children to vocabulary that is more expansive than what they hear on a day-to-day basis, and it provides them with examples of different types of grammar and syntax. How do we encourage children to read in a stress-free manner?  Here are some ideas…

  • Set a reading time where you and your child read together. Make it more fun by creating a special reading space for them in their room or elsewhere in the home.
  • Connect an activity with the reading. For example, if your child likes to read about animals, reward reading books about animal with a trip to the zoo.
  • Let your child sign up for their own library card and allow them to check out a few books per week.
  • Explore interactive reading apps that can be customized for your child’s age and reading level. For young readers, some good apps include www.readingrockets.org and starfall.com.
  • Listen to audiobooks together.
  • Provide opportunities for reading outside of the home. For example, you can keep books in the car or pack them for a day on the beach.
  • Remember – it does not need to be a chapter book to count as reading! For example, some students might enjoy reading magazines in their areas of interest. There are several magazines specifically designed for kids. Find the one that interests your child. Some examples include TIME for Kids, Sports Illustrated for Kids, or National Geographic Kids.
  • Kids who don’t like to read to themselves may still enjoy being read to. Talk with your child about what topics they want to learn more about and then look for nonfiction books on that subject. Try to find some they can read independently as well as books you can read aloud.
  • Finally, encourage your child to try books from different series. This way, when they find a series they like, there will be more books for them to read and enjoy!

Resources

Sally Shaywitz, MD, Overcoming Dyslexia (2020 Edition): Second Edition, January 4, 2005

www.readbrightly.com

www.scholastic.com/parents/books-and-reading

 

About the Author

With NESCA since its inception in 2007, Dr. Talamo had previously practiced for many years as a child and adolescent clinical psychologist before completing postdoctoral re-training in pediatric neuropsychology at the Children’s Evaluation Center.

After receiving her undergraduate degree from Columbia University, Dr. Talamo earned her doctorate in clinical health psychology from Ferkauf Graduate School of Psychology and the Albert Einstein College of Medicine at Yeshiva University.

She has given a number of presentations, most recently on “How to Recognize a Struggling Reader,” “Supporting Students with Working Memory Limitations,” (with Bonnie Singer, Ph.D., CCC-SLP of Architects for Learning), and “Executive Function in Elementary and Middle School Students.”

Dr. Talamo specializes in working with children and adolescents with language-based learning disabilities including dyslexia, attentional disorders, and emotional issues. She is also interested in working with highly gifted children.

Her professional memberships include MAGE (Massachusetts Association for Gifted Education), IDA (International Dyslexia Association), MABIDA (the Massachusetts division of IDA) and MNS (the Massachusetts Neuropsychological Society).

She is the mother of one college-aged daughter.

To book a consultation with Dr. Talamo or one of our many other expert neuropsychologists, complete NESCA’s online intake form.

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, New York (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

When Average Doesn’t Feel Like Average

By | NESCA Notes 2024

By: Yvonne Asher, Ph.D.
NESCA Pediatric Neuropsychologist

When we conduct a neuropsychological evaluation with a child, adolescent, or adult, one important component involves administering a battery of assessments. This is certainly not the only, or many times the most important, component, but it is part of the unique skill set of a neuropsychologist. A large percentage of these assessments are interpreted by comparing an individual’s performance to the performance of others who are similar in age. For example, we may compare an 8-year-old’s reading skills to the reading skills of a nationally-representative sample of 8-year-olds. This comparison helps us to understand if the child’s reading skills are generally below their peers, about at the same level as their peers, or above the level of their peers.

A nationally-representative sample of children may not be the most salient comparison for some families. In fact, the concerns that bring parents to a neuropsychologist in the first place can often include comparing their child to friends’ children, classmates, or other children in their community. This is an almost inescapable process. As parents, it is nearly impossible not to compare children – meeting milestones, academic skills, temperament, behavior, sociability, etc. Although it can have significant negative impact when done in front of a child or in a detrimental manner (e.g., “Why can’t you be more like Johnny?” “Susie has already figured that out and she’s younger than you!”), comparing your child to others can be valuable in specific circumstances. Many parents have little experience with child development before having children, and the children in their community and friend group can serve as helpful “guideposts” for what to expect at different ages. Many times, a parent has brought concerns to a neuropsychological evaluation along the lines of “my child seems different than my friends’ children/nieces and nephews/other kids at daycare,” and I have confirmed a significant disability or disorder was present. Parental instincts are valuable and can be an important first step.

However, there are times where comparing a child to a very specific set of other children can be a fraught process, particularly when seeking neuropsychological evaluation. Parents may live in an area or socialize with a group of families who are far from the nationally-representative samples that we utilize in our evaluations. Cousins and the children of close friends may have unusually well-developed skills, unusually calm or easy-going temperaments, or unusually easy progress through school. Children may be learning in a school environment that is extremely competitive, the result of a highly selective admissions process, or inaccessible to most of the general population. Any or all of these can make a child seem more impaired than neuropsychological assessments may indicate.

This is certainly not to discount valid, important parent concerns. A child who is far behind their classmates, even when those classmates are part of a highly selective school environment with academic expectations far beyond most schools, is still struggling and may be suffering. What is vital for parents to understand is the profile of their own child, and from where the challenges that they see are coming. A mismatch between a child and their environment, be it a social environment or an academic environment, can still result in real, impactful struggles – even if the child appears “average” on neuropsychological assessment measures.

 

About the Author

Dr. Yvonne M. Asher enjoys working with a wide range of children and teens, including those with autism spectrum disorder, developmental delays, learning disabilities, attention difficulties and executive functioning challenges. She often works with children whose complex profiles are not easily captured by a single label or diagnosis. She particularly enjoys working with young children and helping parents through their “first touch” with mental health care or developmental concerns.

Dr. Asher’s approach to assessment is gentle and supportive, and recognizes the importance of building rapport and trust. When working with young children, Dr. Asher incorporates play and “games” that allow children to complete standardized assessments in a fun and engaging environment.

Dr. Asher has extensive experience working in public, charter and religious schools, both as a classroom teacher and psychologist. She holds a master’s degree in education and continues to love working with educators. As a psychologist working in public schools, she gained invaluable experience with the IEP process from start to finish. She incorporates both her educational and psychological training when formulating recommendations to school teams.

Dr. Asher attended Swarthmore College and the Jewish Theological Seminary. She completed her doctoral degree at Suffolk University, where her dissertation looked at the impact of starting middle school on children’s social and emotional wellbeing. After graduating, she completed an intensive fellowship at the MGH Lurie Center for Autism, where she worked with a wide range of children, adolescents and young adults with autism and related disorders.

 

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; and staff in the greater Burlington, Vermont region and Brooklyn, NY, serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

 

To book an appointment with a NESCA clinician, please complete our Intake Form today. For more information about NESCA, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

 

The Importance of Building Grit

By | NESCA Notes 2024

By: Alissa Talamo, PhD
Pediatric Neuropsychologist, NESCA

“I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

Michael Jordan

 “Our potential is one thing. What we do with it is quite another.”

– Angela Duckworth, “Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance

What is it that separates those who succeed and those who give up? Is it talent? Is it luck? In the book, “Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance,” psychologist Angela Duckworth examined why some people are more successful than others, and she concluded that the common denominator is ‘grit.’ She defines grit as “passion and perseverance for long-term goals” and notes that “bouncing back from failure turns out to be one of the best lessons a kid can learn.” While we, as parents, sometimes focus on academic success to help our children succeed, Angela Duckworth believes that grit “matters more to a child’s ability to reach his full potential than intelligence, skill, or even grades.” Research into grit also finds that, unlike IQ, which is relatively fixed, grit is something everyone can develop.

While some children seem to be naturally grittier than others, we can help our children develop the habits of persistence and perseverance that will allow them opportunities to be successful in whatever it is they feel passionate about. So, how do we help our children develop the ability to push through when things get hard, recognize that making a mistake is an opportunity to learn rather than a ‘failure,’ and stay focused on goals even during times of disappointment?

One important thing parents and teachers can do is to model and encourage goal setting. It is important to encourage children to set realistic and achievable short-term goals, so that they can experience small successes that will keep them motivated to reach their long-term goals. For example, a short-term goal could be to practice the piano for 20 minutes per day with the long-term goal of participating in the school talent show.

As parents or caregivers, we tend to want to ‘fix’ things for our children, or make the path easier for them, but to truly develop grit, a child must be provided opportunities to attempt difficult things. According to Duckworth, “It has to be something that requires discipline to practice,” and she reminds parents to remember that the actual activity doesn’t matter as much as the effort, and that it is effort that should be rewarded over achievement.

It is also important to model to children that success does not occur right away, that practice and perseverance are needed, and that learning something new is hard but that does not mean they will not be good at it. Additionally, when a child does come across a problem, rather than solve the problem for them, encourage them to figure out a way to solve it themselves. According to Paul Tough, author of “How Children Succeed,” “It’s so much more powerful for a child to be able to deal with adversity and overcome it. What the child takes from that experience is, ‘Hey, I can solve things.’”

Most importantly, children learn what they see, so demonstrate to your child that you are able to take on tasks that are sometimes scary. And while sometimes you may have difficulty with those tasks or even fail to complete them, your ability to persevere, problem solve, and bounce back from these experiences will go far in allowing children to believe that they also can try hard things, that failing is not a lack of success but a stepping stone to gaining a skill, and that perseverance and grit are traits that will serve them well as they continue to grow and develop.

Sources:

https://www.scholastic.com/parents/family-life/social-emotional-learning/social-skills-for-kids/power-defeat-how-to-raise-kid-grit.

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2021,Grit and academic achievement: A comparative cross-cultural meta-analysis

“Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance,” Angela Duckworth, Scribner, 2016

“How Children Succeed: Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character,” Paul Tough, Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 2012

 

About the Author

With NESCA since its inception in 2007, Dr. Talamo had previously practiced for many years as a child and adolescent clinical psychologist before completing postdoctoral re-training in pediatric neuropsychology at the Children’s Evaluation Center.

After receiving her undergraduate degree from Columbia University, Dr. Talamo earned her doctorate in clinical health psychology from Ferkauf Graduate School of Psychology and the Albert Einstein College of Medicine at Yeshiva University.

She has given a number of presentations, most recently on “How to Recognize a Struggling Reader,” “Supporting Students with Working Memory Limitations,” (with Bonnie Singer, Ph.D., CCC-SLP of Architects for Learning), and “Executive Function in Elementary and Middle School Students.”

Dr. Talamo specializes in working with children and adolescents with language-based learning disabilities including dyslexia, attentional disorders, and emotional issues. She is also interested in working with highly gifted children.

Her professional memberships include MAGE (Massachusetts Association for Gifted Education), IDA (International Dyslexia Association), MABIDA (the Massachusetts division of IDA) and MNS (the Massachusetts Neuropsychological Society).

She is the mother of one college-aged daughter.

To book a consultation with Dr. Talamo or one of our many other expert neuropsychologists, complete NESCA’s online intake form.

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, New York (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

Sibling Stress: How to Support the Siblings of a Child with Emotional Needs

By | NESCA Notes 2024

By: Moira Creedon, Ph.D. 
Pediatric Neuropsychologist, NESCA

A child with significant mental health or developmental needs impacts the whole family system. The impact is multifaceted – from the way that a child interacts in the home environment to the challenging logistics of coordinating outpatient care and appointments. Families have to make sacrifices with their time, attention, and financial resources to address the mental health needs of one (and sometimes more than one) child. Families may also arrange schedules, including planning vacations or social events, for the family in order to accommodate treatment. It can add more stress when parents stop to consider: how is this impacting the other kids in the family?

To buffer siblings against negative impacts from being in the home with someone struggling with mental health:

  • Create an environment of safety and predictability. Talk in a family meeting about basic safety needs for the household – things like being safe with your body, being safe with property, and maintaining basic travel safety (e.g., staying buckled in the car). It is important that all siblings hear the rules and the consequences for violating the rules. If there is an episode of dysregulation, it can be very helpful to return to this conversation again.
  • Create a plan for when there is dysregulation. Remind your child/children without mental health concerns that the job of the parent is to re-establish safety, and where your other child/children should go while you address a problem. This can be their bedroom, basement playroom, or other identified place in the home. Take a moment to identify Plan B for where the safe place is if the dysregulation is happening in a common space. Talk to your child about what activities may distract and distance them from the commotion.
  • Remind your child what adults are available for them. If you are in a two-parent household, one parent can address dysregulation, and the other can stay with the sibling(s). If you are in a one-parent household (or a partner is not home), remind your child that they can call the other parent, aunt, uncle, grandparent, or identified friend or neighbor if they need some reassurance.
  • Put on your “oxygen mask” first. After an incident of dysregulation, check in with yourself as a parent to regulate emotionally before approaching your other child/children. Take a few moments for deep breaths or progressive muscle relaxation to calm your own nervous system. Once you are re-regulated, your message that safety has been re-established will be more soothing and believable.
  • Set aside time in each day to connect with each child. The focus can often be on positive connection with the child struggling. But, all children need the positive connection, praise, and child-driven interactions. This can help ensure that all children receive the attention they need to thrive.
  • Hold the frame. It can be easy to relax the rules with a sibling whose struggles and behavior may seem mild by comparison. It’s important to establish standards that work for each child’s unique skills and needs. It’s worth a candid conversation with each child about what the expectations are and why.
  • Use the village. Establishing a support system is critical to buffer the entire family from the overwhelming stress that can accompany emotional health issues. Enlist the support of other family members, neighbors, teammates’ families, or school personnel. If you feel that your support system is small, start with your child’s pediatrician or school to connect to community resources.
  • Reach out for help. It’s important to closely monitor siblings for signs of increased anxiety, stress response, low mood, or atypical behaviors. If you see classic signs of anxiety (fight/flight/freeze), reach out to your child’s school or pediatrician to evaluate symptoms and initiate treatment.

Additional resources to support siblings:

 

About the Author

Dr. Creedon has expertise in evaluating children and teens with a variety of presenting issues. She is interested in uncovering an individual’s unique pattern of strengths and weaknesses to best formulate a plan for intervention and success. With experiences providing therapy and assessments, Dr. Creedon bridges the gap between testing data and therapeutic services to develop a clear roadmap for change and deeper of understanding of individual needs.

 

If you are interested in booking an evaluation with Dr. Creedon or another NESCA neuropsychologist, please fill out and submit our online intake form

 

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, NY (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

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