NESCA is currently accepting therapy and executive function coaching clients from middle school-age through adulthood with Therapist, Executive Function Coach, and Parent Coach Carly Loureiro, MSW, LICSW. Carly specializes in therapy for individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorders and individuals who are highly anxious, depressed, suffer with low self-esteem, etc. She also offers parent coaching and family sessions when needed. For more information or to schedule appointments, please complete our Intake Form.

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Sean O'Brien headshot and quote

Introducing Pediatric Neuropsychologist Sean Hyde O’Brien, Psy.D., ABPdN

By | NESCA Notes 2024

Sean O'Brien headshot and quoteBy: Jane Hauser
Director of Marketing & Outreach, NESCA

NESCA is excited to welcome Sean Hyde O’Brien, Psy.D., ABPdN, to our team, conducting evaluations in the Newton, Massachusetts office! My interview with Dr. O’Brien offers an opportunity for readers to get to know him, his professional background, experiences and expertise, and his approach to working with children, adolescents, and young adults as a pediatric neuropsychologist.

You covered a broad swath of academic, emotional, and developmental challenges in your career as a pediatric neuropsychologist. Tell us more about that.

I think I’m a good generalist as far as pediatric neuropsychology goes, covering a lot of the high-incidence disorders, like ADHD, autism spectrum disorder, and learning disorders, but there are a couple groups that I really like working with.

What are the groups of children or students you find the most interesting?

I really like kids that are on the high functioning end of the autism spectrum, so I did one of my post-doctoral years at McLean at the Center for Neurointegrative Services, which is a DOE-approved special education school for kids who used to have what was called Asperger’s Disorder, which is now part of the ASD diagnosis. I got to spend a lot of time honing my assessment skills, but also spending quality time getting to know this group of students. They have a special place in my heart.

Another area I enjoy is working with children who came from other countries and may have moved because of war, famine, or simply for better opportunities for their families. They often come to this new country, perhaps not with the best English skills, and a lot of complex developmental and psychiatric challenges. Teasing all of those components apart and helping them acclimate to a new school, culture, and world has been interesting to me.

It takes a lot of thinking on your feet from an assessment standpoint to work with this population. For example, when you evaluate a child who speaks Russian and has only been learning English for six months, you’re not going to be able to do your standard battery of tests to figure out what their cognitive functioning is like. You have to think creatively and find ways to work slightly outside the domain of standard evaluation procedures. I’ve learned so much being with them, watching, and observing them in different settings, and, of course, getting the information from multiple sources, like teachers and parents. Those kids along with those who come from other countries through adoption are the most challenging, but also probably the most rewarding to me.

My wife and I were both adopted, so I come from a family of people who know and are part of the adoption community. I did a lot of research and clinical work involving international adoption. I love working with children who are coming from China, India, Korea, or domestically and their adoptive parents who are trying to figure out how to best support them with the range of strengths and weaknesses that they might have. These are also some of the kids who stick out to me.

Why did you come to NESCA?

I was looking for a change. I’ve been a partner in a private practice that we built from scratch for about 15 years, handling all of the many aspects of running a small business and evaluating students. I felt that the operational and clinical duties became too time-consuming to have a healthy work-life balance. I decided that it was time for a recalibration that would allow me to continue to evaluate children, but not have to stress over all of the other time-consuming operational details.

Throughout my career, I’ve had many NESCA reports come across my desk. They were very well done, and the practice has an incredible reputation. I met with NESCA’s founder and I knew it was the right place. She values the same things that I value – collegiality, warmth, and child-centric care. I was looking for a place where I could do good work and do it in a way that feels good at the end of the day. I found that in NESCA.

What do you feel you can contribute to NESCA families and staff?

The feedback I received over the years is that my ability to connect with children makes me an ally to them, especially those who may be a little resistant to the process. Some kids come in and are scared or angry that they have to be there for an evaluation. I always find a way to let them know this is in their best interest. I will explain what an evaluation will do for them in the end and that I want to work with them to figure out their “operating system” to make life work better for them. Families feel that I’m warm, approachable, and just a nice guy. I make sure that the individuals I evaluate don’t see me as Dr. O’Brien – I’m just Sean, and I’m a “learning detective,” of sorts, who helps figure out what’s going on with them.

I’ve had a number of students who I’ve seen three or so times over the course of the past 15 years. They may have come to me as a struggling six- or seven-year-old and are now in college. It’s the long-term relationships and knowing that the work I did, or that we did together, changed their developmental trajectory and helped them start to feel better about themselves as a learner and/or a person. That’s the piece that keeps me loving the work that I do and feeling young, fresh, and energized. I couldn’t ask for a better job.

What are your thoughts on the field of neuropsychology overall?

We’re a field that is a mixture of art and science. We are students of the brain; not experts, and we are all still learning about how the brain works. That is continuously being questioned, refuted, and remodeled. Since I first started studying neuroanatomy, we have come so far and yet we still know so little.

We can’t become rigid or complacent in the evaluation of children, adolescents, or adults, because that will be the biggest disservice we can give to our clients. We have to always be learning and evolving. Using antiquated models, not being open to new tests or new ways of thinking about things will not help anyone. I have the feeling I will learn a lot of new, creative, proven approaches while I am at NESCA, and that is very exciting to me.

I don’t think you get that kind of ongoing learning and exposure to innovative ways of doing things in many places. Often, neuropsychologists have to go outside of their practices to get that kind of knowledge from colleagues. Having that built in here at NESCA is something I am excited about.

 

About the AuthorHeadshot of Sean Hyde O'Brien

Dr. Sean Hyde O’Brien has been providing comprehensive neuropsychological evaluations in the Greater Boston area since 2006. He specializes in the assessment of children and adolescents who present with a wide range of developmental conditions, such as  Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder, Specific Learning Disorder (reading, writing, math), Intellectual Disability, and Autism Spectrum Disorder; as well as children whose cognitive functioning has been impacted by medical, psychiatric, and genetic conditions. He also has extensive experience working with children who were adopted both domestically and internationally.

To book a consultation with Dr. O’Brien or one of our many other expert neuropsychologists or other clinicians, complete NESCA’s online intake form.

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, New York (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

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Helping Students Become Independent: The Role of Fading Prompts

By | NESCA Notes 2024

Image of the words Fading Prompts fading outBy: Sarah LaFerriere, M.Ed.
Transition Specialist & Special Educator, NESCA

Supporting students with disabilities is an experience filled with opportunities to help them grow and succeed. One key area to focus on is promoting independence, which involves carefully managing the use of prompts. If not handled well, prompt dependence can become a significant barrier, especially as students move toward transition age.

What is Prompt Dependence?
Prompt dependence happens when students become overly reliant on external cues, like verbal or written instructions or physical guidance – from teachers, therapists, or caregivers. While prompts are a helpful tool in teaching, over time, too much reliance on them can make it difficult for students to act independently. This can become a bigger issue as they get older and need to function more independently in real-world situations, such as in jobs or community settings.

Why Fading Prompts Matters and How to Do It
Fading prompts is a technique used to gradually decrease the level of support given to students, helping them gain the skills they need to act independently. The goal is to provide enough support initially so that students can learn, and then slowly reduce that support as they become more capable on their own. This isn’t about suddenly withdrawing help but rather about making a gradual shift that encourages students to rely on their own skills.

  1. Start Early—Addressing prompt dependence early on is crucial. When introducing prompts, consider how you’ll gradually reduce them. For younger students, this could mean starting with more hands-on assistance and gradually moving to less direct forms of support, such as verbal or visual cues.
  2. Reduce Support Gradually—Fading prompts involves a step-by-step reduction of assistance. Begin with more direct prompts and, as the student improves, shift to more subtle forms of support. It’s important to pace this reduction based on the student’s progress, ensuring they have enough opportunity to practice and succeed before making further changes.
  3. Promote Self-awareness—Encouraging students to recognize when they need help and how to seek it can be very effective. By developing self-monitoring skills, students can learn to manage their own needs and understand when they are capable of performing tasks on their own.
  4. Be Consistent and Patient—Consistency among all those involved in a student’s education is key. This means that teachers, therapists, and family members should use the same approach and follow the same plan for reducing prompts. Patience is also important, as progress can be gradual and may require repeated practice.
  5. Customize Approaches—Every student is different, and so their path to independence will be unique. Tailoring the approach to each student’s specific needs can make a big difference. This might involve adjusting how quickly prompts are faded or choosing the types of support that work best for the student. Regularly reviewing and adjusting the plan ensures that students are receiving the right level of support.

Involving Families and Service Providers
Families and service providers are essential in this process. Good communication and teamwork between educators, therapists, and families help create a consistent approach to fading prompts. Families can support the skills being taught in various settings, and service providers can offer valuable insights and guidance.

Preparing for the Future
As students reach transition age, being able to act independently becomes even more important. By addressing prompt dependence early and using effective fading techniques, we can help students develop the skills and confidence they need for adult life. This preparation not only aids students but also benefits their families and communities by fostering a more inclusive environment.

In summary, fading prompts is a crucial practice in helping students with disabilities become more independent. By understanding and applying strategies to reduce prompt dependence, we can better prepare students for a future where they can navigate the world with confidence and self-sufficiency. This not only supports the students but also contributes to a more supportive and inclusive community.

 

About the AuthorHeadshot of Sarah LaFerriere, M.Ed.

Sarah LaFerriere, M.Ed., is a transition specialist and special educator who has nearly a decade of experience working with transition aged students in public schools, college, and home-based settings. She provides transition assessment, consultation, and coaching services to a wide range of clients, and specializes in supporting students with autism, intellectual disabilities, developmental disabilities, mental health conditions, and medical conditions.

To book a consultation with Sarah LaFerriere or one of our many other expert transition specialists, neuropsychologists, or other clinicians, complete NESCA’s online intake form.

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, New York (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

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Child in bed suffering from a concussion, holding their head in pain

What School Supports Does My Child Need After A Concussion?

By | NESCA Notes 2024

Child in bed suffering from a concussion, holding their head in painBy: Alison Burns, Ph.D.
Pediatric Neuropsychologist, NESCA

Unfortunately, every year, many children and adolescents experience concussions. A concussion is a mild traumatic brain injury that occurs when an individual sustains a blow to the head or body that results in the brain moving rapidly back and forth. This causes the brain to stretch and strain, resulting in a vast array of possible symptoms. Symptoms of a concussion include:

list of physical, cognitive, emotional, and sleep concussion symptoms

Recent studies have shown that while it is important to rest for the initial few days after an injury, slowly reengaging in cognitive activities at a tolerable level helps to promote recovery. This period of rest followed by a slow increase in cognitive activity means that children are often out of school/slowly transitioning back to school for an unspecified period after injury. As such, many children will benefit from support and accommodation at school during the recovery period. Parents are encouraged to talk to their child’s academic team and school personnel to discuss the need for these supports. As children and adolescents experience differing sets of symptoms after an injury, the accommodations and supports should be tailored to the individual’s unique symptom profile.

Physical Symptoms: Students who experience headaches or fatigue may benefit from rest breaks or even a nap during the school day. Dizziness, balance problems, or nausea may necessitate the need for an elevator pass and it may be helpful for the student to transition to class before the bell rings when there are less people to navigate around in the hallway. Light and noise sensitivity can be particularly hard within the school setting. Students may need to wear sunglasses or a hat, be seated away from the window, and may need teacher notes as looking at a smartboard may be painful. In addition, computer-based work may need to be printed during the recovery period for light sensitive students. Students with noise sensitivity may need to wear ear plugs, avoid crowded and noisy areas, such as the lunchroom, assemblies, or music class, and they may need to transition to the next class before the bell rings and the hallway becomes noisy.

Cognitive Symptoms: A concussion can temporarily impact an individual’s attention, executive functioning skills, and processing speed. Therefore, it may be necessary to reduce a child’s workload (e.g., odd/even problems only, outline a paper instead of writing it fully, reduce homework load) and assign only essential work (i.e., waive non-essential assignments, quizzes, and tests). In addition, it may be helpful to break down tasks into smaller “chunks,” repeat information or instructions, and allow for extended time to complete essential classwork, quizzes, and tests. They may need access to teacher notes if they are unable to keep up with the pace of the instruction to take proper notes, and they may need information presented in a slower manner or repeated to ensure comprehension. Teachers should consider alternative ways to ensure mastery of information (e.g., oral discussion, multiple choice instead of open-ended questions) as students may not be able to demonstrate their true knowledge in standard ways while recovering from a concussion. Tests and quizzes should only be given if symptoms do not interfere, and the student is adequately prepared.

Emotional Symptoms: Emotional symptoms following concussion are often overlooked as they are not a commonly known symptom of concussion. Some children and adolescents may become overwhelmed about missing school and the accumulating workload, and they may feel isolated from their friends. This would also suggest the need to reduce a child’s workload for a short period of time, including waiving non-essential assignments, quizzes, or tests. Students should also be allowed to socialize with their peers as tolerated (e.g., quiet lunch setting with a few close friends).

Sleep Symptoms: A child or adolescent experiencing sleep difficulties as a result of their concussion may not have the energy to complete a full day of school. They may need a later start time or only be able to complete a half day of school. Some students with disrupted sleep may be able to complete a full school day, but they may require a nap in the nurse’s office.

In sum, a concussion presents in many ways and often has a significant impact on the day-to-day functioning of a child or adolescent. In particular, school is often disrupted after a concussion, even for children and adolescents who have a short recovery. School supports and accommodations should be tailored to the child’s individual profile of symptoms to best support them throughout their recovery.

 

About the Author

Dr. Burns conducts comprehensive evaluations of school-aged children, adolescents, and young adults with a variety of developmental, learning, and emotional difficulties. She has expertise in the evaluation of individuals following a concussion/mild traumatic brain injury and particularly enjoys working with individuals with attention (ADHD) and executive functioning (EF) difficulties. Dr. Burns is passionate about helping individuals and their families better understand their areas of strength and weakness and provides tailored treatment recommendations based upon that unique profile to make the evaluation most helpful for each client.

 

To book a consultation with Dr. Burns or one of our many other expert neuropsychologists, complete NESCA’s online intake form.

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, New York (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

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Why Should I Encourage My Child to Read Before Heading Back to School?

By | NESCA Notes 2024

three children enjoying reading books on a beachBy: Alissa Talamo, PhD
Pediatric Neuropsychologist, NESCA

While it is important for children to have the summer to relax and recharge, summer is also an opportunity to make reading a fun and enjoyable experience. Research demonstrates that students who do not read over the summer are more likely to “slide” or lose skills during that time period, while students who read can avoid the slide and actually improve their reading skills. Reading also provides significant benefits, including expanding your child’s general knowledge, improving spelling skills, increasing vocabulary, and even improving focus and attention.

According to Sally Shaywitz, MD, author of the book, Overcoming Dyslexia, students who read for less than a few minutes a day (outside of school) are exposed to approximately 8,000 written words per year compared to a child who reads for 20 minutes per day who is exposed to 1.8 million words per year. Reading also exposes children to vocabulary that is more expansive than what they hear on a day-to-day basis, and it provides them with examples of different types of grammar and syntax. How do we encourage children to read in a stress-free manner?  Here are some ideas…

  • Set a reading time where you and your child read together. Make it more fun by creating a special reading space for them in their room or elsewhere in the home.
  • Connect an activity with the reading. For example, if your child likes to read about animals, reward reading books about animal with a trip to the zoo.
  • Let your child sign up for their own library card and allow them to check out a few books per week.
  • Explore interactive reading apps that can be customized for your child’s age and reading level. For young readers, some good apps include www.readingrockets.org and starfall.com.
  • Listen to audiobooks together.
  • Provide opportunities for reading outside of the home. For example, you can keep books in the car or pack them for a day on the beach.
  • Remember – it does not need to be a chapter book to count as reading! For example, some students might enjoy reading magazines in their areas of interest. There are several magazines specifically designed for kids. Find the one that interests your child. Some examples include TIME for Kids, Sports Illustrated for Kids, or National Geographic Kids.
  • Kids who don’t like to read to themselves may still enjoy being read to. Talk with your child about what topics they want to learn more about and then look for nonfiction books on that subject. Try to find some they can read independently as well as books you can read aloud.
  • Finally, encourage your child to try books from different series. This way, when they find a series they like, there will be more books for them to read and enjoy!

Resources

Sally Shaywitz, MD, Overcoming Dyslexia (2020 Edition): Second Edition, January 4, 2005

www.readbrightly.com

www.scholastic.com/parents/books-and-reading

 

About the Author

With NESCA since its inception in 2007, Dr. Talamo had previously practiced for many years as a child and adolescent clinical psychologist before completing postdoctoral re-training in pediatric neuropsychology at the Children’s Evaluation Center.

After receiving her undergraduate degree from Columbia University, Dr. Talamo earned her doctorate in clinical health psychology from Ferkauf Graduate School of Psychology and the Albert Einstein College of Medicine at Yeshiva University.

She has given a number of presentations, most recently on “How to Recognize a Struggling Reader,” “Supporting Students with Working Memory Limitations,” (with Bonnie Singer, Ph.D., CCC-SLP of Architects for Learning), and “Executive Function in Elementary and Middle School Students.”

Dr. Talamo specializes in working with children and adolescents with language-based learning disabilities including dyslexia, attentional disorders, and emotional issues. She is also interested in working with highly gifted children.

Her professional memberships include MAGE (Massachusetts Association for Gifted Education), IDA (International Dyslexia Association), MABIDA (the Massachusetts division of IDA) and MNS (the Massachusetts Neuropsychological Society).

She is the mother of one college-aged daughter.

To book a consultation with Dr. Talamo or one of our many other expert neuropsychologists, complete NESCA’s online intake form.

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, New York (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

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When Average Doesn’t Feel Like Average

By | NESCA Notes 2024

By: Yvonne Asher, Ph.D.
NESCA Pediatric Neuropsychologist

When we conduct a neuropsychological evaluation with a child, adolescent, or adult, one important component involves administering a battery of assessments. This is certainly not the only, or many times the most important, component, but it is part of the unique skill set of a neuropsychologist. A large percentage of these assessments are interpreted by comparing an individual’s performance to the performance of others who are similar in age. For example, we may compare an 8-year-old’s reading skills to the reading skills of a nationally-representative sample of 8-year-olds. This comparison helps us to understand if the child’s reading skills are generally below their peers, about at the same level as their peers, or above the level of their peers.

A nationally-representative sample of children may not be the most salient comparison for some families. In fact, the concerns that bring parents to a neuropsychologist in the first place can often include comparing their child to friends’ children, classmates, or other children in their community. This is an almost inescapable process. As parents, it is nearly impossible not to compare children – meeting milestones, academic skills, temperament, behavior, sociability, etc. Although it can have significant negative impact when done in front of a child or in a detrimental manner (e.g., “Why can’t you be more like Johnny?” “Susie has already figured that out and she’s younger than you!”), comparing your child to others can be valuable in specific circumstances. Many parents have little experience with child development before having children, and the children in their community and friend group can serve as helpful “guideposts” for what to expect at different ages. Many times, a parent has brought concerns to a neuropsychological evaluation along the lines of “my child seems different than my friends’ children/nieces and nephews/other kids at daycare,” and I have confirmed a significant disability or disorder was present. Parental instincts are valuable and can be an important first step.

However, there are times where comparing a child to a very specific set of other children can be a fraught process, particularly when seeking neuropsychological evaluation. Parents may live in an area or socialize with a group of families who are far from the nationally-representative samples that we utilize in our evaluations. Cousins and the children of close friends may have unusually well-developed skills, unusually calm or easy-going temperaments, or unusually easy progress through school. Children may be learning in a school environment that is extremely competitive, the result of a highly selective admissions process, or inaccessible to most of the general population. Any or all of these can make a child seem more impaired than neuropsychological assessments may indicate.

This is certainly not to discount valid, important parent concerns. A child who is far behind their classmates, even when those classmates are part of a highly selective school environment with academic expectations far beyond most schools, is still struggling and may be suffering. What is vital for parents to understand is the profile of their own child, and from where the challenges that they see are coming. A mismatch between a child and their environment, be it a social environment or an academic environment, can still result in real, impactful struggles – even if the child appears “average” on neuropsychological assessment measures.

 

About the Author

Dr. Yvonne M. Asher enjoys working with a wide range of children and teens, including those with autism spectrum disorder, developmental delays, learning disabilities, attention difficulties and executive functioning challenges. She often works with children whose complex profiles are not easily captured by a single label or diagnosis. She particularly enjoys working with young children and helping parents through their “first touch” with mental health care or developmental concerns.

Dr. Asher’s approach to assessment is gentle and supportive, and recognizes the importance of building rapport and trust. When working with young children, Dr. Asher incorporates play and “games” that allow children to complete standardized assessments in a fun and engaging environment.

Dr. Asher has extensive experience working in public, charter and religious schools, both as a classroom teacher and psychologist. She holds a master’s degree in education and continues to love working with educators. As a psychologist working in public schools, she gained invaluable experience with the IEP process from start to finish. She incorporates both her educational and psychological training when formulating recommendations to school teams.

Dr. Asher attended Swarthmore College and the Jewish Theological Seminary. She completed her doctoral degree at Suffolk University, where her dissertation looked at the impact of starting middle school on children’s social and emotional wellbeing. After graduating, she completed an intensive fellowship at the MGH Lurie Center for Autism, where she worked with a wide range of children, adolescents and young adults with autism and related disorders.

 

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; and staff in the greater Burlington, Vermont region and Brooklyn, NY, serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

 

To book an appointment with a NESCA clinician, please complete our Intake Form today. For more information about NESCA, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

 

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The Importance of Building Grit

By | NESCA Notes 2024

By: Alissa Talamo, PhD
Pediatric Neuropsychologist, NESCA

“I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

– Michael Jordan

 “Our potential is one thing. What we do with it is quite another.”

– Angela Duckworth, “Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance”

What is it that separates those who succeed and those who give up? Is it talent? Is it luck? In the book, “Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance,” psychologist Angela Duckworth examined why some people are more successful than others, and she concluded that the common denominator is ‘grit.’ She defines grit as “passion and perseverance for long-term goals” and notes that “bouncing back from failure turns out to be one of the best lessons a kid can learn.” While we, as parents, sometimes focus on academic success to help our children succeed, Angela Duckworth believes that grit “matters more to a child’s ability to reach his full potential than intelligence, skill, or even grades.” Research into grit also finds that, unlike IQ, which is relatively fixed, grit is something everyone can develop.

While some children seem to be naturally grittier than others, we can help our children develop the habits of persistence and perseverance that will allow them opportunities to be successful in whatever it is they feel passionate about. So, how do we help our children develop the ability to push through when things get hard, recognize that making a mistake is an opportunity to learn rather than a ‘failure,’ and stay focused on goals even during times of disappointment?

One important thing parents and teachers can do is to model and encourage goal setting. It is important to encourage children to set realistic and achievable short-term goals, so that they can experience small successes that will keep them motivated to reach their long-term goals. For example, a short-term goal could be to practice the piano for 20 minutes per day with the long-term goal of participating in the school talent show.

As parents or caregivers, we tend to want to ‘fix’ things for our children, or make the path easier for them, but to truly develop grit, a child must be provided opportunities to attempt difficult things. According to Duckworth, “It has to be something that requires discipline to practice,” and she reminds parents to remember that the actual activity doesn’t matter as much as the effort, and that it is effort that should be rewarded over achievement.

It is also important to model to children that success does not occur right away, that practice and perseverance are needed, and that learning something new is hard but that does not mean they will not be good at it. Additionally, when a child does come across a problem, rather than solve the problem for them, encourage them to figure out a way to solve it themselves. According to Paul Tough, author of “How Children Succeed,” “It’s so much more powerful for a child to be able to deal with adversity and overcome it. What the child takes from that experience is, ‘Hey, I can solve things.’”

Most importantly, children learn what they see, so demonstrate to your child that you are able to take on tasks that are sometimes scary. And while sometimes you may have difficulty with those tasks or even fail to complete them, your ability to persevere, problem solve, and bounce back from these experiences will go far in allowing children to believe that they also can try hard things, that failing is not a lack of success but a stepping stone to gaining a skill, and that perseverance and grit are traits that will serve them well as they continue to grow and develop.

Sources:

https://www.scholastic.com/parents/family-life/social-emotional-learning/social-skills-for-kids/power-defeat-how-to-raise-kid-grit.

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2021,Grit and academic achievement: A comparative cross-cultural meta-analysis

“Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance,” Angela Duckworth, Scribner, 2016

“How Children Succeed: Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character,” Paul Tough, Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 2012

 

About the Author

With NESCA since its inception in 2007, Dr. Talamo had previously practiced for many years as a child and adolescent clinical psychologist before completing postdoctoral re-training in pediatric neuropsychology at the Children’s Evaluation Center.

After receiving her undergraduate degree from Columbia University, Dr. Talamo earned her doctorate in clinical health psychology from Ferkauf Graduate School of Psychology and the Albert Einstein College of Medicine at Yeshiva University.

She has given a number of presentations, most recently on “How to Recognize a Struggling Reader,” “Supporting Students with Working Memory Limitations,” (with Bonnie Singer, Ph.D., CCC-SLP of Architects for Learning), and “Executive Function in Elementary and Middle School Students.”

Dr. Talamo specializes in working with children and adolescents with language-based learning disabilities including dyslexia, attentional disorders, and emotional issues. She is also interested in working with highly gifted children.

Her professional memberships include MAGE (Massachusetts Association for Gifted Education), IDA (International Dyslexia Association), MABIDA (the Massachusetts division of IDA) and MNS (the Massachusetts Neuropsychological Society).

She is the mother of one college-aged daughter.

To book a consultation with Dr. Talamo or one of our many other expert neuropsychologists, complete NESCA’s online intake form.

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, New York (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

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Sibling Stress: How to Support the Siblings of a Child with Emotional Needs

By | NESCA Notes 2024

By: Moira Creedon, Ph.D. 
Pediatric Neuropsychologist, NESCA

A child with significant mental health or developmental needs impacts the whole family system. The impact is multifaceted – from the way that a child interacts in the home environment to the challenging logistics of coordinating outpatient care and appointments. Families have to make sacrifices with their time, attention, and financial resources to address the mental health needs of one (and sometimes more than one) child. Families may also arrange schedules, including planning vacations or social events, for the family in order to accommodate treatment. It can add more stress when parents stop to consider: how is this impacting the other kids in the family?

To buffer siblings against negative impacts from being in the home with someone struggling with mental health:

  • Create an environment of safety and predictability. Talk in a family meeting about basic safety needs for the household – things like being safe with your body, being safe with property, and maintaining basic travel safety (e.g., staying buckled in the car). It is important that all siblings hear the rules and the consequences for violating the rules. If there is an episode of dysregulation, it can be very helpful to return to this conversation again.
  • Create a plan for when there is dysregulation. Remind your child/children without mental health concerns that the job of the parent is to re-establish safety, and where your other child/children should go while you address a problem. This can be their bedroom, basement playroom, or other identified place in the home. Take a moment to identify Plan B for where the safe place is if the dysregulation is happening in a common space. Talk to your child about what activities may distract and distance them from the commotion.
  • Remind your child what adults are available for them. If you are in a two-parent household, one parent can address dysregulation, and the other can stay with the sibling(s). If you are in a one-parent household (or a partner is not home), remind your child that they can call the other parent, aunt, uncle, grandparent, or identified friend or neighbor if they need some reassurance.
  • Put on your “oxygen mask” first. After an incident of dysregulation, check in with yourself as a parent to regulate emotionally before approaching your other child/children. Take a few moments for deep breaths or progressive muscle relaxation to calm your own nervous system. Once you are re-regulated, your message that safety has been re-established will be more soothing and believable.
  • Set aside time in each day to connect with each child. The focus can often be on positive connection with the child struggling. But, all children need the positive connection, praise, and child-driven interactions. This can help ensure that all children receive the attention they need to thrive.
  • Hold the frame. It can be easy to relax the rules with a sibling whose struggles and behavior may seem mild by comparison. It’s important to establish standards that work for each child’s unique skills and needs. It’s worth a candid conversation with each child about what the expectations are and why.
  • Use the village. Establishing a support system is critical to buffer the entire family from the overwhelming stress that can accompany emotional health issues. Enlist the support of other family members, neighbors, teammates’ families, or school personnel. If you feel that your support system is small, start with your child’s pediatrician or school to connect to community resources.
  • Reach out for help. It’s important to closely monitor siblings for signs of increased anxiety, stress response, low mood, or atypical behaviors. If you see classic signs of anxiety (fight/flight/freeze), reach out to your child’s school or pediatrician to evaluate symptoms and initiate treatment.

Additional resources to support siblings:

 

About the Author

Dr. Creedon has expertise in evaluating children and teens with a variety of presenting issues. She is interested in uncovering an individual’s unique pattern of strengths and weaknesses to best formulate a plan for intervention and success. With experiences providing therapy and assessments, Dr. Creedon bridges the gap between testing data and therapeutic services to develop a clear roadmap for change and deeper of understanding of individual needs.

 

If you are interested in booking an evaluation with Dr. Creedon or another NESCA neuropsychologist, please fill out and submit our online intake form. 

 

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; the greater Burlington, Vermont region; and Brooklyn, NY (coaching services only) serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

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The ABCs of Challenging Behavior

By | Nesca Notes 2023

By: Erin Gibbons, Ph.D.
Pediatric Neuropsychologist, NESCA

When a child or adolescent is exhibiting challenging behaviors, it is helpful to understand why the behaviors are occurring. The first step is to analyze the situational factors surrounding the behaviors:

A: Antecedent. What is happening right before the behavior occurred?
B: Behavior. What is the specific behavior that the child/adolescent exhibited?
C: Consequence. What happened right after the behavior occurred?

By looking at the ABCs of a particular behavior, we can start to understand the function of the behavior. That is to say, why is the child/adolescent engaging in the behavior? How is the behavior being reinforced?

Let’s look at an example:
Tom is in 6th grade. He arrives to math class, and the teacher distributes a worksheet. Tom rips up the math sheet and throws it on the floor. The teacher sends him to principal’s office.

A: Math class, being given a worksheet
B: Ripping up the paper
C: Being sent to the principal/leaving the class

In this example, the aversive situation might be math class itself, it could be the worksheet, or it could be the specific concept being worked on (e.g., multiplication is hard for Tom). Alternatively, something might have happened right before math class that upset him.

The consequence is that Tom is allowed to avoid the problematic situation. Thus, the teacher is inadvertently reinforcing the behavior. Tom has learned that if he refuses to do the work, he gets to leave class.

The more effective intervention would be to understand why he refused the work. In this case, it would be important to have a conversation with Tom. Was the work too hard? Does he need extra explanation of the concepts being covered in the worksheet? Did something happen before math class that Tom was still upset about? If the teacher is not able to engage him in this type of conversation, perhaps it would be better to send him to the school counselor as opposed to the principal.

As you think about your own children, it might be helpful to consider the ABCs of any challenging behaviors that are occurring. What was happening right before? If you can identify antecedents, you might be able to make some concrete environmental changes in order to avoid the behavior. What happened right afterward? Did your reaction to the behavior somehow reinforce it? Could you do something different next time the behavior occurs that would be more effective?

Resources
The Explosive Child by Ross Greene
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish
The Behavior Code Companion by Jessica Minahan

 

About the Author

Erin Gibbons, Ph.D., evaluates children presenting with a range of attentional, learning, and developmental disabilities. She has a particular interest in children with autism spectrum disorders, intellectual disabilities, and those with complex medical histories.

If you are interested in booking an evaluation with a NESCA neuropsychologist/clinician, please fill out and submit our online intake form. 

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham, Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; and the greater Burlington, Vermont region, serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

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Falling through the Cracks

By | Nesca Notes 2023

By: Yvonne Asher, Ph.D.
NESCA Pediatric Neuropsychologist

“You’re going to have a tough conversation on your hands,” I said. The parent sighed and nodded in response. “That’s what her ABA provider said, too,” she responded.

This conversation would not be difficult because her child was acting out, engaging in challenging behaviors, or taking up a great deal of adult time. In fact, she was exactly the opposite. Quiet, calm, gentle, and well-regulated were some of the words I used during our feedback session. And this, we discussed, is a huge part of the problem.

Despite their best efforts, teachers simply cannot be with every child that needs help, each time they need help. School providers do not have infinite caseloads, time, or capacity. There are real-world limitations to providing support and services for children at school. And yet, the children who suffer from these very real constraints are so often the quietest and least disruptive. This is extremely unfortunate when the child has real, diagnosed, observable deficits that absolutely require special attention and intervention at school.

Our brains often develop schema in order to reduce the brain’s workload (these occur entirely outside of our conscious awareness). Many social psychology studies have characterized the harm that schema can do. One such harm often comes to children for whom teachers have either strong positive or strong negative schema about. The effects of negative schema are likely obvious, but the positive schema can be just as challenging to manage. When teachers view a child very positively, they may be more likely to “write off” concerns (e.g., “she was just tired today,” “he really does know, he’s just having a bad day”), over-emphasize the child’s effort and diligence (rather than their actual skill level or mastery), and focus on positive attributes of the child in place of focusing on their weaknesses.

It can be challenging for parents to hear such positive feedback, particularly when it does not correlate with their perception of the child’s difficulties. Although neuropsychology attempts to be a strength-based field as much as possible, fully exploring and adequately characterizing deficits is often an invaluable part of what we do. This can help us to bring objective, data-driven recommendations to school teams for all students, hopefully preventing those quiet, hard-working youngsters from “falling through the cracks.”

 

About the Author

Dr. Yvonne M. Asher enjoys working with a wide range of children and teens, including those with autism spectrum disorder, developmental delays, learning disabilities, attention difficulties and executive functioning challenges. She often works with children whose complex profiles are not easily captured by a single label or diagnosis. She particularly enjoys working with young children and helping parents through their “first touch” with mental health care or developmental concerns.

Dr. Asher’s approach to assessment is gentle and supportive, and recognizes the importance of building rapport and trust. When working with young children, Dr. Asher incorporates play and “games” that allow children to complete standardized assessments in a fun and engaging environment.

Dr. Asher has extensive experience working in public, charter and religious schools, both as a classroom teacher and psychologist. She holds a master’s degree in education and continues to love working with educators. As a psychologist working in public schools, she gained invaluable experience with the IEP process from start to finish. She incorporates both her educational and psychological training when formulating recommendations to school teams.

Dr. Asher attended Swarthmore College and the Jewish Theological Seminary. She completed her doctoral degree at Suffolk University, where her dissertation looked at the impact of starting middle school on children’s social and emotional wellbeing. After graduating, she completed an intensive fellowship at the MGH Lurie Center for Autism, where she worked with a wide range of children, adolescents and young adults with autism and related disorders.

 

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham (coming soon), Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; and the greater Burlington, Vermont region, serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

 

To book an appointment with Dr. Yvonne Asher or another NESCA clinician, please complete our Intake Form today. For more information about NESCA, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

 

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Going South: NESCA Announces New Hingham, MA Location

By | Nesca Notes 2023

By: Jane Hauser
Director of Marketing & Outreach, NESCA

NESCA is excited to announce that it is opening a Hingham location to serve clients on the South Shore of Massachusetts. NESCA is currently booking appointments now for Neuropsychological and Psychological Evaluation Services commencing on November 1, 2023. Learn more about what is being offered by our Hingham-based staff from my interview with Hingham Director; Pediatric Neuropsychologist Moira Creedon, Ph.D.

What prompted NESCA’s expansion to the South Shore or Massachusetts, and how can clients benefit from our Hingham location’s services?
NESCA is expanding our in-person services to Hingham on the South Shore to widen the breadth of neuropsychological and educational evaluation and consulting services offered within the state. We know that families have options as they partner with neuropsychologists, and we want to be in close proximity to communities we hope to serve. This is an exciting opportunity to support students in elementary, middle, and high school as well as young adults, as they navigate the complexities of their daily lives. It is our priority to continue providing detailed, client-centered, thorough evaluations that highlight a client’s areas of strength and vulnerability. I am also excited to strengthen relationships with local care providers and schools, and to build new relationships as a new clinician within the South Shore community.

What services do you offer?
At this time, NESCA’s South Shore-based practice will offer Neuropsychological Evaluations and Projective Assessments. The goal of these services is to build a complete picture of a client’s functioning, including their intellectual, academic, and social-emotional profile. Team members are also available to participate in team meetings at school (IEP meetings), conduct school observations, and offer consultation to parents and team members. Sometimes, a child has already participated in evaluations in other settings (schools, hospitals), and a family needs help to review these documents and make meaning of the findings.

What types of clients will NESCA serve in its South Shore location?
NESCA’s South Shore-based practice is similar to our other locations and will serve children, teens, and young adults with a range of presenting issues. The focus is in working with students in elementary, middle, and high school as well as young adults. I can see clients with diagnostic questions, including Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Learning Disorders (e.g., dyslexia, dysgraphia), Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), anxiety, depression, and complex psychiatric diagnoses.

A specialty we have at NESCA – including in Hingham – is working with clients who have multiple diagnoses or who don’t fit neatly into a singular diagnostic box. I also see clients who are high functioning and curious about their learning style, how to improve their study skills, and how to plan for their academic future based on their unique profile.

Where are you on the South Shore? Are services in-person or remote?
We are practicing in person in an office at 99 Derby Street, Suite 200, in Hingham, MA. Hingham is uniquely positioned to serve the South Shore/Southcoast, and the Cape and Islands. For those traveling for appointments, most clients schedule testing in two longer (2.5 hour) blocks of time so the commute is reduced for families. I am also available to participate in IEP team meetings and conduct student observations in person on the South Shore, which is an exciting way to collaborate and build strong relationships with families, schools, and organizations.

What is different about what NESCA offers on the South Shore compared to other organizations or services available locally?
NESCA is highly respected in the community for providing detailed, comprehensive evaluations of students that speak to their strengths as well as their needs. Compared to some practices, your child or teen will be assessed directly by a neuropsychologist rather than a technician. You can depend on your neuropsychologist to bring their own expertise as well as the “village” of NESCA, as I am always collaborating with NESCA’s team of innovative neuropsychologists, transition specialists, educational consultants, speech and language pathologists, occupational therapists, and therapists. We work routinely with special education attorneys, advocates, therapists, and school personnel in collaborative relationships to support children and teens. At NESCA, we live our core values everyday: being creative problem solvers, being collaborative and building lasting relationships, and caring deeply for students, their families, and the community.

Does insurance cover your services in Hingham?
Several NESCA providers take both Blue Cross Blue Shield and private pay for services. I am paneled with BCBS. Some families are able to obtain some coverage or reimbursement through other insurance agencies, and we can provide those families with brief billing information to submit to their insurance company. We can never guarantee insurance reimbursement, so it is important that families check with their insurance plan regarding covered services.

What if I am unsure if I should refer my child or client for an evaluation?
Give us a call! Our administrative team is happy to support you in navigating this process. We are also planning some community events to provide information to our community about a variety of topics, including who we are and how to recognize signs that a child or teen may need additional support. There is also a ton of information on our website.

How do people get more information about NESCA’s South Shore services?
You can fill out our online intake form, call 617-658-9800 to speak with an intake coordinator, or reach Hingham-based Pediatric Neuropsychologist Dr. Moira Creedon directly at mcreedon@nesca-newton.com.

 

About the Author

Hingham Director; Pediatric Neuropsychologist Dr. Moira Creedon has expertise in evaluating children and teens with a variety of presenting issues. She is interested in uncovering an individual’s unique pattern of strengths and weaknesses to best formulate a plan for intervention and success. With experiences providing therapy and assessments, Dr. Creedon bridges the gap between testing data and therapeutic services to develop a clear roadmap for change and deeper of understanding of individual needs.

 

If you are interested in booking an evaluation with Dr. Creedon or another NESCA neuropsychologist, please fill out and submit our online intake form. 

 

NESCA is a pediatric neuropsychology practice and integrative treatment center with offices in Newton, Plainville, and Hingham (coming soon), Massachusetts; Londonderry, New Hampshire; and the greater Burlington, Vermont region, serving clients from infancy through young adulthood and their families. For more information, please email info@nesca-newton.com or call 617-658-9800.

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